
Gravel Hill, located south of Allendale on U.S. 301, was built in 1854 by Mr. Benjamin Willingham. Mr. Willingham had 18 children. There were 9 girls and 9 boys (boys picture below). Their coat hangers are still in the side hall today.
During the War of Northern Aggression, Brig. General Judson Kilpatrick, a member of General William T. Sherman's staff, spared the house because it was used as a hospital for Union troupes as they passed through the area. Gen. Kilpatrick was in charge of the left flank cavalry unit which was raiding the left side of Sherman's line of march.
After the war, Mr. Willingham gave the house and land, as a wedding present to his daughter, Phoebe.
Miss Willingham married James Malone, but the marriage did not work out, and Miss Phoebe decided to move back to Macon Georgia to her family.
Charles Edward Bryan purchased the home in November of 1888 from Miss. Phoebe, and it remained in the Bryan family until March of 1993. After a brief departure from the family, it was purchased by Suzanne Oswald Cordray, great grand daughter of Charles Edward Bryan.
Ms. Cordray did an extensive renovation to the house and brought it back to a great condition. It is however unfortunate that she had to change the original layout of the house, doing away with the original dinning room and living room.
In the spring of 2002, Mr. Frank E. Guidobono purchased the house, and is doing a wonderful job at bringing it back to it's original state, along with adding children, laughter, friends, and joy to the home which has been void of those wonderful things and good times for quite a few years. With Frank's presence, the house reminds me so very well of how it was when I was growing up there.
Jim P. Bryan, the last Bryan born at Gravel Hill.

THE SONS OF BENJAMIN LAWTON WILLINGHAM
BENJAMIN LAWTON WILLINGHAM
Born 21 Apr.. 1839 Lawtonvillc, South Carolina
Died 17 Feb., 1898 Macon, Ga
ELIZABETH MARTHA BAYNARD
Bom Sept.. (B) 1830 Broad River. South Carolina
Died July. (D) 1887 Macon. Ga
Top Row
Broadus Esles (B) 12/28/1862 (D) 11/27/1937
Edward John (Ned) (B) 8/18/1861 (D) 3/31/1928
Paul Dargan (B) 5/37/1867 (D) 7/9/1931
Bottom Row
Osgood Pierce (B) 2/23/1857 (D) 6/7/1933
Ernest Pringle (B) 7/23/1869 (D) 2/13/l941
Calder Baynard (B) 2/29/1858 (D) 10/26/1908
Robert Josiah (B) 5/15/1854 (D) 12/20/1914
Benjamin Brooks (B) 10/13/1872 (D) 9/20/1944
Thomas Henry (B) 12/7/1850 (D) 6/2/1909
A Short History Of Gravel Hill
Note: This is copied from
ALLENDALE ON THE SAVANNAH,
By
Alexania Easterling Lawton & Minnie Reeves Wilson
Copyright 1970
Towering in majestic splendor atop a wooded hill, five miles west of Allendale in partial view of U. S. Highway 301's stream of traffic, is Gravel Hill, magnificent relic of the ante-bellum south. For an edifice of that era, this splendid fifteen room house shows few scars of the ages through which it has passed. With practically no changes in its original structure, the architecture may be considered authentic of the period.
Built in the year 1856 by the late Benjamin Willingham, the house was planned with foresight. Eventually, it housed the eighteen children of Mr. Willingham and his wife, Mrs. Elizabeth Baynard Willingham, all of whom grew to maturity and lived to old age. Eighteen "pegs" on a side hall wall attest that nine boy's caps and nine girl's bonnets often hung there.
Gravel Hill, acquired in 1888 by the late Charles Edward Bryan family, has remained in that family since, successive owners being the late William and George Bryan. It is currently owned by Mrs. W. Z. Bryan and George E. Bryan.
Constructed of the choicest timbers on the place, with massive foundations of brick made from Gravel Hill's clay pits, there is little deterioration in the materials.
The rectangular structure, with huge chimneys extending high above the roof, is designed along lines traditional of the era. Wide lower and upper halls extend the length of the building, with huge rooms on either side. The bedroom closets are almost the size of some modern day bedrooms.
The down stairs hall has a side hall extending from it to the side piazza thus giving a second entrance in addition to the more formal front one.
The large family room, adjoining the dining room, with division wall composed of folding doors, may be opened and used as a banquet hall.
When used on such occasions, particularly in winter, huge fire places ablaze with oak logs in opposite ends of each room, form a unique and cheery setting. A graceful stairway, broken by a landing, and completed with hand-wrought railings, terminates in the back hall behind folding doors, which are high lighted with transoms and side lights identical to those in both front and back door entrances.
From this picturesque stairway, the tossing of the bridal bouquet has been reenacted on numerous occasions, as Gravel Hill has afforded the setting for such occasions throughout the years.
The old parlor, or drawing room, of Gravel Hill is elaborate in ornate frescoing in plaster of Paris design in overhead medallion and in an insert between moldings around the room, of bunches of grapes, vines and tendrils.
The front hall has a similar overhead medallion with molding of sturdier type. Mantels, baseboards, moldings throughout the house are handsome and sturdy. Fireplaces are large and afford ample heat when fires are built of oak logs.
The master bedroom is as large as many small entire homes. The house is plastered, both overhead and side walls throughout and the plastering has held up remarkably well, notwithstanding earthquakes and storms. The few cracks now showing are believed to have been caused by planes overhead breaking the sound barrier.
The original basement has been removed, with the exception of one part used for storage. The huge attic beneath the wide expanse of roof could well afford another floor but has never been completed for such. Massive brown stone steps, flanked with curving stone curbs, impress one with the stability and dignity of the fine old place.
Enormous square columns support the portico at the front entrance, while small replicas extend the length of the piazza along one whole side of the house. An old joggling board on this piazza has afforded much pleasure throughout the years..
The vista afforded from the front entrance through the long hall is intriguingly interesting, with the curb of the old well centering the back porch and sun room in the rear. The traditional old oaken bucket and chain stand ready for emergency use in the event the electric pump concealed within the curb does not function.
Gravel Hill's well, as old as the mansion, has never failed in its supply of pure sweet water, for man, beast, garden and other demands.
The great grove surrounding the old place has suffered the effects of storms, some few monarchs surviving to attest to types of former years. Fig bushes, almost as tall as the eaves of the house have been cut back to allow gathering of the luscious fruit. Other orchard trees have not survived the years.
The two-story smoke house bespeaks of the good old days of home-cured hams, sausage, and other meat products as well as other supplies. The icebox with thick walls doubled and insulated with sawdust, testifies to necessity being the mother of invention. It served adequately in its day.
Gravel Hill has been a "Mecca" for the many since it was built more than a century ago. Something contagious, holding and enduring, permeates the atmosphere, causing a reluctance in leaving and impelling desire to return.
Annual family reunions bring the Bryan clan together, the house always proving a revelation to younger generation. To the tourist, catching a glimpse of the formidable structure from U. S. Highway 301, stopping is a must as a tour of this ante-bellum home shows life of the past. Mrs. W. Z. Bryan, owner and hostess of Gravel Hill, dispenses hospitality, traditional of the South.
Gravel Hill's interior is attractive in furnishings of the antebellum and postwar periods. Also many items, now obsolete are cherished possessions there, furthering its atmosphere, and providing rare conversational objects.
From records of the War Between the States period, magnificent Gravel Hill was spared the torch of Sherman's men on their march to the sea simply because it was used as the General's headquarters. Nearby Rose Lawn, another handsome place typical of the era, owned and occupied by Mr. and Mrs. Don Sharp, was spared, also, because it was headquarters for Gen. Kilpatrick.
For some reason, "Erwinton," ancestral home of the Erwin family, not far distant, was not burned. The place is now owned and cherished by Mr. Walter Montgomery and several associates of Spartanburg. It seems the irony of fate that the three places mentioned were the only ones which were spared out of a community, resplendent in wealth, affluence, and culture, as was indicated by standards of living maintained there by the numerous families within the area of Buddenville, Old Allendale.